Puppy

The submissive or bottom in an animal play relationship.

Munch

A discreet social gathering of BDsM people, usually in a restaurant, with the people dressed in "regular clothing". People usually exchange tricks and beliefs about the BDsM lifestyle, in a non threatening situation. A great way to meet others in the BDsM lifestyle safely.

TT

Tit torture. The term applies to both males and females.

Permanent v. play piercing

A permanent piercing refers to the implantation of body jewelry (such as nipple rings). A play piercing is a form of radical SM play in which needles or other piercing implements are temporarily inserted in flesh, either as part of a ritual (sometimes spiritual) or for the erotic pleasure of the pain it brings.

Lifestylers

people who assume their dominant, submissive, top or bottom roles as a way of life. Lifestyle relationships are role-based, but not role-play. Many lifestylers are not "in the lifestyle" in that they do not participate in the organized SM Scene, but instead conduct their SM relationships in privacy at home.

He views her heart inside,

He views her heart inside,

it's yours my love and has been

since the day you held me to your side

Clamps

Toy used in S&M play. kind of clamp like clothespin, to pinch areas of the body such as the breast or lips of the cunt.

Brat, bratting

Term for a sub who tries to get the attention of a Dom/me by stiring up trouble. Mostly online type submissives.

Watersport

A humiliation technique where the dominant urinates on the submissive (see Golden Shower / GS)

Hard Limits

The maximum edge of someone's negotiated limit. In some cases, a hard limit is a personal choice; in others, it is a necessity to safeguard the submissive's health. For example, if the submissive is allergic to latex, any latex product is a "hard limit."

Play-Space/Playroom

alternate term for a dungeon. Any space regularly used for SM scenes.

TT (Tit Toture)

Intense breast stimulation (for example with needles, clamps, tight bondage etc.)

Troller

One Who Plays At BDsM, Online Noted To Have Several submissives/Masters At Once. Also known As "Online Predators". Those Who Carry No Honour Are Who Are Not Serious Into The Lifestyle, But Lie And Cheat For The Purpose Of Cyber/Phone/Cam Sex.

SAM

The acronym for "smart ass masochist;" a bottom or submissive who likes to verbally tease and otherwise act feisty with a Dominant, usually in hopes of a little extra discipline.

Kink-Friendly

This describes someone who, while not necessarily kinky him or herself, is nonetheless sympathetic and supportive to kinky people. A "kink-friendly therapist," for example, is someone who has a permissive view of kinky sex. "Kink-friendly" is also used to describe businesses which welcome leather people as customers.

The Prayer

The Prayer

"Take, O "Mistress/Master",

into Thy hands all my liberty,

my memory,

my understanding,

and my will.

All that I have and possess,

Thou has given it to me.

I restore myself to Thee,

and surrender it

that Thou mayest use of it

in accordance with Thy superior will.

Give me Thy love,

Thy pleasure,

Thy watchful eye,

and Thy graces.

With them I am rich enough

and desire nothing more.

Golden Shower

A humiliation technique where the Dominant urinates on the submissive. Also The Marking of a slave.

Pansexuality

A political, philosophical and social movement within the organized SM/Fetish communities which unites kinky people across orientation lines (i.e., gay, lesbian, heterosexual, bisexual, and transgendered together). This movement is fairly young but already gaining widespread acceptance in North America, although the old traditions of gay- only or lesbian-only venues and events continue as well. Politically speaking, pansexuality is a way of uniting disparate SM/fetish communities into a solid front which can more effectively fight for kinky civil rights and better educate the public about the diversity and consensuality of kinky sex. A "pansexual" event welcomes people of all orientations. "Pansexual play" means that gay and non-gay alike may engage in some non-sexual SM acts together, particularly in group settings (for example, a lesbian or gay man may consent to spank members of the opposite sex at a party, though neither would sleep with or otherwise have a romantic relationship with them).

TPE

Total Power Exchange Term for an extreme form of a 24/7 D/s relationship.

Edgeplayer

A person takes part in edgeplay. Example: "The guy is a real edgeplayer; he's into heavy bloodsports and asphyxia."

Foot worship

Also called "foot service." Oral service (licking, kissing, sucking) to bare feet.

Dungeon

any space set aside for SM activity, public or private, and furnished with some SM equipment. Not all dungeons have large-scale equipment--home dungeons, because of space limitations, may have only small toys.