Pushy (or Greedy) Sub

Usually used playfully in reference to a submissive who likes a lot of play, and will act naughty to get the Dominant to take action. It can also be used to refer to submissives who push so hard that they turn dominants off.

Submissive

An individual who gives up power in a D&S relationship for the mutual pleasure of those involved.

The Sundering

The Sundering

In the moment in which I place my collar around the neck of a naked kneeling woman, she becomes a new creation She has become property, the possession of the Master standing before her. She has no name, no possessions of her own. Everything she is, her body, her mind, and her feelings, are now packaged in the naked gift kneeling before me, knees widely apart open to my gaze and to my touch. Her past belongs to someone else, a free woman. The slave is a new person. Her life begins now. She carries no shame, no responsibility, no baggage from her past. The free woman who had made those things a part of her life is no more. A new slave is like a butterfly newly emerged from the cocoon that brought her to this moment of her collaring and her new life. A slave has no right of privacy. Her body is the property of her master. He may allow her clothing, or not, as he wishes. He may use her body as he wishes. Her mind is the property of her master. He will require her to be open with her thoughts, and always fully honest with him. She will be expected to share her thoughts, her concerns, her memories, her humor, pleasure and displeasure...Thoes are part of what he owns, the gift he has collared for himself. Her emotions are the property of the master. He will feel her feelings and share in her joys and sorrows, he will take pleasure in her femininities, He will be made to feel more alive in the sharing of his slave's emotions. The slave, all of her, belongs to the master. She is his most valued possession. There is nothing to compare to the gift of a woman's self. A slave is free. She is not allowed to hide. She is not allowed to be false. She is not allowed to protect herself from being known. She is not allowed to wear a mask. She can only be herself, naked, vulnerable, helpless. Her master is her protection, and he will not allow her to be other than her true self. Under his protection, she is safe to be herself. She is only a slave. There is no shame in the helplessness of her body's responses when she is touched, or taken. She is a slave and is not allowed to hold back. She is not allowed to be anything but her true self, the person that existed in the womb with all the potentials to be anything, before experiences limited her. The slave is new, and free, and full of potential to explore her new world as herself, free in the keeping of her master to explore herself, knowing that he is responsible for her care and safe-keeping. I will explore my slave as she explores herself. I will come to know her as she comes to know herself. She is a new person, and will be constantly amazed at how different it is to be a butterfly than a caterpillar. This is the gift my collar holds captive.

Discipline

The application of stimuli which, outside of a scene, would be considered painful. Common discipline techniques are whipping, spanking and strapping. See B&D.

Pain Threshold

The limit at which pain ceases to be pleasure and becomes undesirable for the submissive or bottom.