The third one is small and compact

The third one is small and compact

white paper, small white bow

she watches as He opens

and whispers...and now, you own my soul

Safeword

A word, phrase or sign the participants agree on which has the meaning of a stopsign - all play has to stop immediately when this sign is given.

Electroplay/Electrotorture

Using electrical devices for stimulation.

Negotiation

The art and science of reaching a clear, consensual agreement with your adult partner about the type of relationship you will have and the kinds of kinky things you will do together. The negotiation process lasts as long as the couple needs to hammer these things out--it could be days, weeks, months or even years. Couples also may re-negotiate terms periodically as their relationship evolves and their needs change. "Negotiating a scene" involves a much narrower type of dialogue, in which partners only decide on what they will do during a scene.

Topping from the bottom

For a submissive to dictate the precise action in a scene. A term of contempt. Example: "She's cute and willing, but she's always topping from the bottom; you will spend most of your time trying to keep her from telling you which whip to use and how to swing it." See 'SAM'

Stretching Limits

Many submissives want to see progress in their submission and hope to be able to engage in increasingly more intense sex. When Dominants consensually "stretch" limits, they guide submissives gradually to be able to reach their goal by pushing their limits. A Dominant's limits usually stretch over time too, usually as the Dominant gains increasingly self-confidence, experience, and skill with equipment.

Mentor

A teacher, advisor - both subs and Dom/mes make use of a Mentor at certain times, at least it might be helpful and wise to do so.

The second gift is smaller

The second gift is smaller

the paper silver gilt

tis just my mind, she whispers

yours to do with as you will