Dominant

An individual who accepts the submissive's power and uses it for their mutual pleasure. See Sadist.

BDSM

Bondage Domination Sado Masochism, Term for activities of BDSM

Name of a lifestyle shared by many people. The word BDSM is a combination of 3 acronyms, BD for Bondage Discipline, DS for Domination and Submission and SM for Sado Masochistic. people who share this lifestyle believe in having a relationship where one of the people by mutually agreed upon conscent is in a position of Power/Domination the other person in this relationship. This relationship could be for a brief moment (a scene) or for a longer period of time (permanent relationship).

Discipline

Codeword for spanking, whipping etc.

Messy

Usually used in combination with "wet" ("wet and messy"). Refers to a fetish for being covered, or having one's clothes covered, with wet, messy substances--typically mud or oil, but can also include body wastes or gooey foods (honey, chocolate syrup, ice cream, and so on). "Messy sex" means the people like to get gooey and get it on.

Submissive (sub)

A person who gives the control to another person (Dom/me, Top)

subspace

A state of mind and body - often like a trance - some describe it as flying/drifting- caused by endorphins emitted during an intense scene or stress.

Blood sports

A group of techniques in which the submissive's skin is broken and blood is allowed to escape. Since the advent of AIDS and the spread of hepatitis, interest in blood sports has declined and those who practice it have developed techniques to protect themselves. The most common blood sport is cutting. See Cutting.

My reality can become my way of life

My reality can become my way of life

Or it can haunt my life

if i choose for it to haunt my life

Then i shall forever be the haunted one

By my own unfulfilled reality